Choosing a childcare

What to look for when choosing a childcare? 

As an infant teacher, I thought I knew what mattered most when it came to childcare. I’d spent years welcoming families, settling their children, and doing my best to make parents feel confident that their children were safe and well cared for. But when it came time to find care for my own baby, I realised just how daunting it feels to hand them over. In some ways, knowing the ins and outs of early childhood education made the decision even harder, I knew too much, and that knowledge made the stakes feel even higher.

Now, standing in both worlds, a teacher and now a parent, I see the whole process in a completely different light. And to be honest, it’s a little overwhelming. 

I’m lucky that the place I call my workplace also feels like a second home. It’s given me a whole new appreciation for what really makes a daycare special. It’s not just about the building - it’s about the people, the relationships, and the environment as a whole. 

So, if you’re at the stage of looking for care, these are my top five things to keep in mind when choosing a daycare:

1. The Feel

This is hard to define but easy to sense. How does it feel when you walk in? Do the teachers smile at you? Does the space feel warm, calm (as calm as an early childhood centre can be!), or fun? Are the children engaged and settled? Most importantly, does it feel like you have a sense of trust? 

2. Supervision

Ratios matter, but don’t just take a centre’s word for it. If they say 1:4, look around… do you see that ratio in practice? Are teachers present, attentive, and genuinely engaged with the children?

3. Your Child’s Interests

Think about your child. If they love being outdoors, ask how often the outdoor area is open. If they love art, what opportunities will they have for creative play? The best centres make space for children’s individuality. 

4. Meals & Routines

What meals are provided, and how do they manage dietary needs? Just as important… are routines flexible? Some centres stick to a strict routine, while others follow each child’s lead (to a degree, otherwise all toddlers might be drawing on walls and having no nappy changes!) Look for a place that values parent and whānau input, and that welcomes family involvement in everyday centre life.

5. Communication & Settling

How will you be kept in the loop about your child’s day? Will it be an app, daily photos, quick chats at drop-off and pick-up? And what does their settling process look like? Is it rushed, or do they allow the time your child (and you) need to feel comfortable? A supportive centre moves at your pace (to an extent) and not just the other way around.

Most importantly… 

Choosing childcare is a big decision, and it can feel overwhelming. But the right space, the right feel and the right people, makes all the difference.

Before I became a mum, I thought I knew what to expect. But nothing really prepares you for the moment you have to leave your baby in someone else’s care while you head back to work. It’s a leap of trust. Asking the right questions and finding a place where you and your child both feel at home, can make that leap just a little easier.

Author: Brittany Saltmarsh

Magic Garden Infant & Toddler Room Teacher